Vatican City, 15 June 2015 (VIS) –
Yesterday afternoon in St. Peter's Square Pope Francis inaugurated
the ecclesial Congress of the diocese of Rome, whose theme this year
is: “For what I received I passed on to you – we parents,
witnesses to the beauty of life”. The meeting began with greetings
from Cardinal Agostino Vallini, vicar of His Holiness for the diocese
of Rome, and a prayer invoking the Holy Spirit. The Holy Father went
on to address some off-the-cuff remarks to the families, catechists,
priests and pastoral workers present, extensive extracts of which are
given below.
“Our city must be reborn, morally and
spiritually, as it seems as if everything is the same, that
everything is relative; that the Gospel is a beautiful story about
good things, pleasant to read, but which remains simply an idea. It
does not touch the heart! Our city needs this rebirth. And this
commitment is so important when we talk about educating children and
young people, for which you as parents are responsible”.
“This evening I would like to reflect
with you on a few simple words that express the mystery of being
parents. I do not know if I will manage to say all I want to say, but
I would at least like to speak about vocation, communion and
mission”.
“The first word is mission. St. Paul
wrote that all paternity derives from God, and we can also add all
maternity. We are all sons and daughters, but becoming a father or
mother is a calling from God! It is a calling from God: it is a
vocation. God is eternal love, which gives ceaselessly and calls us
to existence. It is a mystery that, however, Providence wished to
entrust in particular to man and woman, called upon to love each
other entirely and without reserve, cooperating with God in this love
and in transmitting life to their children. The Lord has chosen you
to love each other and to transmit life. Your children, dear parents,
need to discover, looking at your life, that loving each other is
good. Never forget that your children are always watching you.
Children, before living in a house made of bricks, inhabit another
house, even more essential: they live in the mutual love of their
parents”.
“The second word, the second thought
on which I would like to reflect is communion. … Being parents is
based on the diversity of being male and female, as the Bible reminds
us. This is the 'first' and most fundamental difference, constitutive
of the human being. It is a wealth. Differences are wealth. … We
men learn to recognise, through the female figures we encounter in
life, the extraordinary beauty that women bear. And women follow a
similar path, learning from male figures that the man is different
and has his own way of feeling, understanding and living. And this
communion in difference is very important also in the education of
children”.
“It is very painful when a family
lives in a state of tension that cannot be resolved, when there is a
fracture that cannot be healed. It is painful. When there are the
first signs of this, a father and a mother are duty bound, for
themselves and for their children, to ask for help, to seek support.
… And even when by now separation – we must also speak of this –
seems inevitable, know that the Church carries you in her heart. And
that your educative task is not interrupted: you are and will always
be father and mother, that cannot live together because there are
wounds and problems. Please, always seek understanding,
collaboration, harmony for the good and the happiness of your
children”.
“And the gift of marriage, which is
so beautiful, also has a mission. A mission that is very important.
You are collaborators of the Holy Spirit Who whispers the words of
Jesus! Be this way for your children. Be missionaries of your
children! They will learn from your words and your life that to
follow the Lord brings enthusiasm, the wish to give oneself to
others, always to give hope, even when faced with difficulties and
pain, because we are never alone, but always with the Lord and with
our brethren”.
“I would not like to finish without
offering a word to grandparents, who are the wisdom of the people,
who are the memory of the people, who are the wisdom of the family.
The grandparents who saved the faith in many countries where it was
forbidden to practice religion and took children to be secretly
baptised; and the grandparents who taught them how to pray”.
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