Vatican City, 17 November 2014 (VIS) –
“Complementarity is a valuable word, with multiple meanings. It
may refer to different situations in which one element completes
another or compensates for a lack. However, complementarity is much
more than this”, said the Pope this morning to the participants in
the international interreligious colloquium on complementarity
between man and woman, organised by the Congregation for the Doctrine
of the Faith in collaboration with the Pontifical Councils for the
Family, for Interreligious Dialogue, and for Promoting Christian
Unity.
He continued, “This complementarity
is the foundation of marriage and the family, which is the first
school where we learn to appreciate our gifts and those of others,
and where we begin to learn the art of living together. For most of
us, the family constitutes the principal environment in which we
begin to 'breathe' values and ideals, as well as to realise our
potential for virtue and charity. At the same time, as we know,
families may be the locus of tensions: between selfishness and
altruism, reason and passion, between immediate desires and long-term
aims.
The Pontiff spoke about the crisis that
currently affects marriage and the family, and recalled that in the
throwaway culture in which we live, increasing numbers of people
reject the public commitment of marriage. “This revolution in
habits and morality has often flown the flag of freedom, but in
reality it has led to spiritual and material devastation for
countless human beings, especially the most vulnerable. Evidence is
mounting that the decline of the culture of marriage is associated
with an increase in poverty and a series of other social ills that
disproportionately affect women, children and the elderly”.
Similarly, he explained that the crisis in the family has given rise
to a crisis in human ecology, “as social environments, like natural
environments, need to be protected”, and he emphasised the need to
promote a “new human ecology”.
It is important, he added, to promote
the fundamental pillars that support a nation: its immaterial goods.
“The family remains the foundation of coexistence and the guarantee
against social fracture. Children have the right to grow up in a
family, with a father and a mother, able to create an environment
suitable for their development and their emotional maturation. …
The young represent the future: it is important that they are not
left to be swept up by this damaging mentality of the temporary, and
that they are revolutionary for their courage to seek a strong and
lasting love”.
The Holy Father concluded by expressing
his hope that this colloquium may be “a source of inspiration for
all those who seek to support and strengthen the union between man
and woman in marriage as a unique, natural, fundamental and
beautiful asset for people, families, communities and society”, and
confirmed his intention to attend the next World Meeting of Families,
to be held in Philadelphia, U.S.A., in September 2015.